Shut Dem All: Self Improvement

It’s been a while since I have written anything on this blog.

Actually, I was just a little break from writing. I have been trying to make videos and all. Although I’m still making videos, I will try to post regularly here too.

So, let’s talk about today’s topic. Should you quit or not? I know by reading the title, some of you might be wondering that what the heck Manish. Why are you saying us to quit and all? Don’t you think that we should not give up on our dreams and all?

Well, just read this post and let me tell you why I think that sometimes quitting is good too. I am sure this post will going to change your views. So, with this being said, let’s dive straight into this post:

Sometimes quitting is good too

We all have listened to this thousand times that don’t quit. You should never give up and all. But the thing is this is a wrong approach. I mean, I am not saying that you should give up on your dreams totally. But what I believe is that you should know when to quit and when you don’t.

I mean, let’s imagine that you’re doing something with a wrong approach or with an improper technique. So, even after you put all the efforts, hustle, hard work, and all, you will not be going to get success in that work. Why?

Because you’re doing that with a wrong approach, so, that’s what I want you to know that instead of putting all the hard work blindly, analyze the technique by which you’re doing that work. You should be brave enough to adopt new changes. Don’t think in this way that no matter what happens, I am going to put all the hustle into this work, and I will eventually going to succeed.

You will be going to succeed, but not if you keep doing all that work by those wrong techniques. You should have to quit those wrong approaches, and you should adopt new changes. That’s the way to succeed.

Conclusion:

So, that’s what I want you to know that don’t just put all the hard work, efforts blindly. Be smart enough and learn when to quit. That’s how you’ll be going to succeed.

So, that’s it for today. Share this post with someone who needs to read this.

Thank you.

Have a good day.

We all want a happy life where we just want to live peacefully and happily with our beloved once. And in this process, most of us ignore some of the bitter truth of life and some of us even knowing those things, don’t want to accept them.

So, in this post, I’m going to tell you about those bitter truths of life which one should know. So, let’s get started:

3 Bitter Truths of Life that Everyone Should Know:

1. Sharing Your Problems with Others

If you’re one of those who think that people whom you trust or with whom you share your problems really do care about you and your problems then you really need to understand this. 20% of people don’t care about your problems and 80% are glad that you have them.

And the sooner you are going to realize it, the better it is for you.

We all want people to do well, but not better than us.
This is pretty much self-explanatory. I mean we all want our friends, our known ones to do well, but not better than us. And if you disagree with me, then please question it with yourself and try to answer it honestly.

2. No one will save you.

Okay, so if you think that people do care about you and they’ll come to rescue you from your problems then you’re badly mistaken. I mean in this world, everyone is busy in their life and with their own problems. So, you have to be your own superhero.

If you think that a man with a red cape will come into your life and will be going to save you from all of your problems then boy you are badly mistaken. And you have to realize it as soon as possible.

No matter what you do, some people will hate you anyway.
I think this is what you can agree with me with no doubt. I mean no matter how good you are as a person, no matter how good you things do, no matter how nice you talk with everyone. Always there will be someone who hates you for absolutely no reason.

Yeah skrew, those people.

3. Life is Unpredictable.

Let’s be honest, we all know this but how many of us accept this fact. I mean we all know that life is unpredictable and we can die at any time, but still, we choose not to accept this and ignore it.

I am not saying that you shouldn’t be scared of death or something else inappropriate. I am just saying that life is unpredictable and we all need to accept this.

So, that's it for today. I hope you like this post.

Do share it with whom you think might need to read this.

Thank you.

From the past few weeks, I don’t know what has just happened to me but I was not in the mood to write anything. I mean I was just feeling low, it’s not that I have not been doing anything apart. But it’s just I have not been writing from the past few weeks or maybe months.

So, today I was wondering and this weird thought came into my mind. So, what was it?

Actually, I was thinking and I realize that I call myself a writer, but I am the one who is not writing from months. I mean I was busy making videos for my YouTube channel and all. But it doesn’t mean that I should quit writing. I mean I call myself a writer, not a YouTuber.

So, this is what I have become in the past few months, “A Writer Who Don’t Write.”

I can’t even express my feelings about it. I mean I’m literally very disappointed and sad too with my current condition. So, I thought this needs to end. This break now has to end and here I am writing again.

If you’re a writer I think you can relate it with me. When you don’t write anything for weeks or maybe months, it feels something different to write again. I mean now I’m finding it difficult to write. I have to think a lot for the right words and to write something useful, or to write something which can make sense.

Let me know in the comment section below if you too can relate with it.

What are my plans now?

The break is now officially over and now its time to get myself to back on track again. Although it is now difficult to write in that old-fashioned way still I am going to write. I mean I have done it in the past, so it’s not a big deal now.

From this post, I will try to write at least three articles per week and let’s see how it goes. These articles are going to be personal development related and by the way if you want me to write articles on my personal life experiences then please let me know in the comment section below.

Again, this is not the usual type of post which I post here but still, I thought you guys should know that what has happened to me and to this blog. And why I haven’t been posting for this long time.

Well, so this is it for today. See you soon in the very next post.

Have a good day.

Thanks.

Nowadays, there’s been a trend in the market like people are telling you to be positive all the time. Every other self-help guru is teaching you that you’re born to do something great, all you have to do is to just hustle hard. They are saying you to ignore all the negative thoughts and negative things that are around you and just focus on something good.

But what if I told you that you suck and you have to accept it. Instead of being positive all the time, accept the negative situation and try to live with it. What if I told you that this pain will never be going to leave you and you have to live with it?

Well, in this article, I’m going to tell you about a different approach. This is what I called “Negative Self-Help.”

Actually, it’s not originated by me, but it’s by a great writer, Mark Manson, whom I admire. He is the writer of the best-selling book “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck”

So, what the heck is Negative Self-Help?

Actually, I believe that what these every other self-help guru is teaching you is not all true. I mean they are saying you that pain is temporary and it will going to leave one day. But what I think is a pain is not temporary but it lasts forever. I mean not the same kind of a pain but it will come in a different way.

I mean if you’re having some kind of issues with your personal life and it’s the thing that is making you feel sad. Then it doesn’t mean that it will be going to last forever. But it will eventually fade up and as per the time passes new problems will come up along the way and you’ll become sad about those problems.

See, it’s a complete life circle which I believe that never ends. And this is where I think that what most other self-help gurus are telling you is not all true.

So, what do I believe in?

Well, what I am telling you in this approach is that instead of ignoring the pain and thinking that pain will go one day, try to live with it. Just accept the pain and try to live with it. I mean in this way you will get less hurt.

I mean if you have got some issues to deal with, then instead of ignoring them and thinking in a way that these problems will be going to leave one day, try to accept them and lookup for a solution for them.

In this way, eventually, you will become more powerful than ever.

Let me tell you one thing, we are humans and we all suck at something. And some of us suck at many things. But that’s not the point. The point is if we know we suck at one thing, then instead of thinking in this way that we are born to do great things, try to suck less. I mean we all suck, so just try to suck less. Eventually, you will do things much more efficiently than others.

Did you get my point?

All I want to say is that instead of imagining ourselves as a great human being just be normal. I mean if you are bad at something, accept it. If you have pain, accept it. Instead of ignoring all the negative thoughts, accept them and figure out some way to live with them.

So, what you think about this approach? Let me know in the comment section below.

Public speaking is what I have always skipped and is what from which I always run away in my past life. But nowadays its something which has totally changed my life. It has opened many opportunities for me and has a big part in changing my life.

If you too have a fear of public speaking or just get scared to talk on stage, I think this is the only post you needed. Because in this post, I am going to tell you some of my personal ways which have helped me to get over my fear of public speaking. And I hope these tips will going to work for you the same.

So, without further delay, let’s dive into this post.

Here are my personal top 3 tips which will help you to get over your fear of public speaking.

3 Tips to Get Over Your Fear of Public Speaking:

1. Do not underestimate yourself.

The first thing which I have done is I changed my thinking. I mean in the past, I used to underestimate myself. Like I used to think that I don’t stand a chance among others, I’m useless, what if they question something from me, and many more useless things.

And I’m guessing if you too have a public speaking fear, then you too might get these types of thoughts in your head. So, firstly I want you to stop thinking like this and from now on you should have to fill your head with positive thoughts.

Don’t underestimate yourself. The key to master public speaking is in your head. I mean firstly you have to clear your negative thoughts only then you can proceed further.

2. Educate yourself.

In scientific research, scientists have found out that the person who has more knowledge about is the topic is more likely to be more confident than the others who are just pretending that they know everything.

I mean you can fake that you know everything, but to a point, it will going to get you in trouble. So, instead, you should better educate yourself.

The more knowledge you have the more confidence you became. It’s something natural. If you know more than the persons around you, you became a little more confident, so it will too going to help you to get over your fear of public speaking.

3. Practice, Practice, and Practice.

Just like any other art form, public speaking is art too. And if you want to master it, like any other art form you have to practice t. I mean you have to get on the stage.

You have to get on the stage just to see how it feels. I mean you can just read out an article like these and keep reading more. But frankly speaking, these articles will not gonna help you unless you practice.

So, from now on you have to promise me that you will practice and keep practicing until you become a master.

It's not that you have to be on the stage to practice public speaking. You can also try it in a group of people or you can just simply make some face cam videos. (this is how I practice)

See, you can’t get over your fear unless you practice. So, keep practicing.

Conclusion:

Public speaking is nothing but just art that needs the right mindset and a lot of practice. When you combine these two, you rock the stage. You became the person who totally controls the crowd and which the audience loves the most. You became the person whose words impact lives and so on.

But all you gotta do is, you have to get out in the real field and have to practice a lot. Promise me you’ll do it and let me know in the comment section below how these tips work for you.

So, this is it for today.

I hope you have liked it.

Have a good day. 😊

Thanks.

3 Bitter Truths of Life that Everyone Should Know:

1. Sharing Your Problems with Others

2. No one will save you.

3. Life is Unpredictable.

3 Tips to Get Over Your Fear of Public Speaking:

1. Do not underestimate yourself.

2. Educate yourself.

3. Practice, Practice, and Practice.

Conclusion:

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